Monday, December 23, 2013

CHRISTMAS SONG



 A manger bed at night in Bethlehem
The time and place for God and man to meet
An infant cry greets trembling outstretched hand
While swaddling clothes keep warm those tiny feet

The stillness of the night erupts in love
The kind of love that comes through pain of birth
A star surveys the scene from high above
While angels sing a song of peace on Earth

The Word of God within a cradle lies
Enthroned in arms of human flesh so mild
Attendant shepherds can’t believe their eyes
The hope of countless ages is a child


~ Dale Petley 1987, Richmond Corner, N.B.

Thursday, December 12, 2013

ADVENT


It is a genuine shame that the first four weeks of the Church calendar are overlooked each year in our annual gadarene rush to celebrate the Holiday Season. I suppose, given the traditional Advent themes of death, judgment, heaven, and hell, it is not hard to see why people would rather focus on the light-hearted festivities of the yuletide. Besides, most places hold their Santa Claus parades shortly after Halloween just to get us consumers in a shopping mood. It is all rather sad and appalling, really, and I’ve come to understand why the Puritans banned Christmas celebrations altogether. I know … I know; humbug!
The Season of Advent speaks of judgment and the end of time. Jesus declared that before ‘the end of days’ great signs and wonders would appear on the earth characterized by massive upheaval and destruction virtually impossible not to notice. On the other hand, Jesus also said that the end of time would be like the days of Noah, before he entered the Ark, when people were “eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage.” Just as people in Noah’s day didn’t notice the flood coming, so likewise the end of time shall happen suddenly and seemingly without warning when we least expect it. So which is it? Is Judgment Day ushered in with cataclysmic, ‘can’t miss’ warning signs or does it occur all of a sudden while we are going about our lives like it’s business as usual? Surely both things are true.
It seems to me we give ourselves too much credit when we assume that if there are obvious warning signs we will (1) notice them as such, and (2) respond accordingly. What is it about human history that would lead anyone to believe this? Don’t we tend to do just the opposite? Are we not in fact experts at ignoring the obvious? Doesn’t history teach us that we refuse to learn from history? It is a willed ignorance on our part. Having self-identified as temporary creatures with an impending sell-by date we want our shot at life, our piece of the pie; our chance to shine. Desire blinds us to the lessons of the past and in our hubris we think things will be different this time, with us. We stubbornly refuse to learn from our mistakes; we callously ignore the plaintive cries of poisoned earth; and when it comes to the economy, we’re always partying like it’s 1928. We are the all-time heavyweight champions when it comes to missing the point. You see, the problem with warning signs is that you have to be awake to see them. Advent is about waking up.
If you go to a bookstore today and ask where they keep the volumes on spiritual awakening and enlightenment, chances are you’re going to end up in the Eastern Religions section, or in an area labeled New Age. While I’m happy that lots of people are interested in such matters I also remember a time when these terms were part of the common Christian vocabulary. After all, ‘Mindfulness’ and ‘Present Moment Awareness’ used to be understood as essential components  in Christian spiritual discipline back when there really was such a thing and we were interested in more than commiserating over our precious causes and cherished grievances. ‘Sleepers Awake’ is the theme of Advent, as Bach so beautifully knew.
In Advent we have the shortest day of the year, with the least light, followed by a gradual increase in illumination with each successive day. Advent is about the coming of the light in which we awaken, and when we awaken, we notice the signs. As T. S. Eliot wrote, “we arrive where we started and know the place for the first time.” We desire to wake up to something unique and spectacular but the truth is better than that. The good news is that we awaken to what is always, already here … as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be.

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

THANKFUL FOR POETS


DIVINE EPIGRAMS (Richard Crashaw)

On the Miracle of multiplied Loaves.
SEE here an easy feast that knows no wound,
 That under hunger's teeth will needs be found :
A subtle harvest of unbounded bread.
What would ye more ?   Here food itself is fed.


To our Lord, upon the Water made Wine.
THOU water turn'st to wine, fair friend of life ;
 Thy foe, to cross the sweet arts of Thy reign,
Distils from thence the tears of wrath and strife,
 And so turns wine to water back again.

HEAVEN (George Herbert)

O who will show me those delights on high?
                            Echo.         I.
Thou Echo, thou art mortall, all men know.
                            Echo.         No.
Wert thou not born among the trees and leaves?
                            Echo.         Leaves.
And are there any leaves, that still abide?
                            Echo.         Bide.
What leaves are they? impart the matter wholly.
                            Echo.         Holy.
Are holy leaves the Echo then of blisse?
                            Echo.         Yes.
Then tell me, what is that supreme delight?
                            Echo.         Light.
Light to the minde : what shall the will enjoy?
                            Echo.         Joy.
But are there cares and businesse with the pleasure?
                            Echo.         Leisure.
Light, joy, and leisure ; but shall they persever?
                            Echo.         Ever.


Through his essay, The Metaphysical Poets (1921), T. S. Eliot proved to be hugely influential in re-introducing the world to the 17th Century works of George Herbert, John Donne, Andrew Marvell, Richard Crashaw, and Henry Vaughn, among others. He writes of their having obtained “a fusion of thought and feeling” which we have largely lost in our world marked by what he calls a “dissociation of sensibility.”
When a poet's mind is perfectly equipped for its work, it is constantly amalgamating disparate experience; the ordinary man's experience is chaotic, irregular, fragmentary. The latter falls in love, or reads Spinoza, and these two experiences have nothing to do with each other, or with the noise of the typewriter or the smell of cooking; in the mind of the poet these experiences are always forming new wholes.
He comments further …
The poets in question have, like other poets, various faults. But they were, at best, engaged in the task of trying to find the verbal equivalent for states of mind and feeling. And this means both that they are more mature, and that they wear better, than later poets of certainly not less literary ability.

The “amalgamating of disparate experience” to which Eliot refers and the “states of mind and feeling” for which ‘verbal equivalents’ must be found would have seemed neither strange nor impossibly esoteric  to the contemplative mind of early and medieval Christianity. The Metaphysical Poets and their fellow writers and dramatists were the inheritors of a great spiritual tradition which we continue to enjoy in our ancient prayers and liturgies. 
When we picture ‘a contemplative’ we imagine someone with his head in the clouds, unaware of his surroundings, taking no notice of the people near him, lost in his thoughts. However, this image is not an accurate portrayal of the contemplative life but is actually just a more intense version of the state we find ourselves in most of the time. We spend a good deal of our day lost in thought, mentally preoccupied, our body in one place and our mind in another. We rely heavily on repetition to establish routines and patterns so that as much as possible we can live life without having to be present for it.
Contemplative prayer as it was practiced in the Christian tradition in apostolic times and throughout the Middle Ages led to the reverse of what is described above. The spiritual exercises and contemplative disciplines of the church emphasized the taking up of the cross as a death unto self, and encouraged the faithful towards a diminishment of egocentrism and a lessening of self-centeredness which led them in turn to a far greater awareness not only of the truth of their inner lives but also of the world in which they lived. Being spared a little of the self-absorption narcissism craves, the contemplative became more fully conscious and far more appreciative of the greatness and beauty of creation. All of life was precious to one who felt God’s love in every blade of grass and saw eternity in a grain of sand. Not only did the contemplative notice those around him -- he sensed with great intensity the heaviness of their burdens just as he shed tears of joy over each of their blessings. Nurtured by stillness and centered in the silence of his deepest nature, the world was much more vivid and real to the contemplative precisely because he was not lost in his thoughts. Instead, he was wide awake to the beauty he saw in every nook and cranny of a created order ‘charged with the grandeur of God.’

Saturday, November 16, 2013

THE COMMUNION OF SAINTS


The Synoptic Gospels are unanimous in declaring that a delegation of Sadducees approached Jesus with a question about a woman who had been married and widowed seven times.(1) Their question was ‘ridiculous’ in the sense that it was intended to ‘ridicule’ belief in the resurrection held by the rival Pharisees. He was asked whose wife this woman would be following the resurrection. Seven men were married to her in the course of her life and the Sadducees wanted to know to whom she would belong in the life to come. The answer given by Jesus speaks of Heaven, and because the spiritual reality of Heaven is considered our ultimate reality, it is what is most true and real about us. But what can we know of Heaven, and how should we speak of it? What does the Christian faith teach?
We who tend to view the world as an arrangement of separate objects, and picture things in images, imagine Heaven simply as an elaboration of life as we know it now, and so we see it as a defined space located somewhere; a future place of material blessing. The response of Jesus to the Sadducees is to say that resurrection is real but not in the way that they imagine. He says that in resurrection we are as the angels, “neither marrying nor being given in marriage,” and are united in a spiritual communion and fellowship which is the deepest marriage of all. Jesus speaks of Heaven as a Kingdom of Spirit in which the widow-woman in question does not ‘belong’ to anybody because as a spiritual being she is not an object to be possessed. In speaking of Heaven as a spiritual kingdom Jesus presents an understanding similar to that of St. Paul who taught that as we have a natural body in this life, we shall also have a spiritual body appropriate to our resurrection. (2) He says that the former is to the latter as a seed is to a tree. What is essential and intrinsic is not lost in resurrection but is transformed in perfection and completeness.
St. Paul writes of what he calls “the fruit of the Spirit.” (3) He mentions ‘love,’ ‘joy,’ ‘peace,’ ‘endurance,’ ‘kindness,’ ‘goodness,’ ‘faithfulness,’ ‘meekness,’ and ‘temperance.’ In order to understand the nature of our ‘spiritual body’ and what Christians mean by resurrection we should consider the qualities of Spirit.
 “God is love,” proclaims St. John, “and whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him.”(4) The Torah declares that God created human beings in his “own image and likeness” and then brought us to life by breathing his own Spirit into us and thus animating us. (5)  Moreover, the Catholic Creeds speak of eternal life as a ‘communion of saints’ (sanctorum communionem), an eternal fellowship transcending friendship and family while losing nothing that is good and true about them. This is the unity of Spirit in which there is union and communion, fusion without confusion, relation without separation, and distinction without division.
Given the materialist mindset of our time it is not surprising that we speak of love in terms of ‘relationships.’ The language of relationships is the language of physics in which objects in space are seen in relation to each another. Neither is it surprising in such a society where our differences are emphasized and our divisions magnified for political purposes that there should be epidemic levels of violence, bullying, and callous behavior. While our attempts to redress these failings correctly stress human rights and individual dignity, it seems to me we need to begin with the even more fundamental realization of our spiritual union and oneness. Without this understanding you simply cannot know what it means to love your neighbor ‘as’ yourself. This unity consciousness is not just wishful thinking. It isn’t some special insight to be arrived at eventually over time; it is the vision which begins our journey. Our end is in our beginning. “Home is where one starts from.”(6)
‘Joy’ is love knowing itself. It properly belongs to us as spiritual creatures. It isn’t a thing we earn; it is what we are. It isn’t derived from anything or anyone but is what we bring to people and events. ‘Peace’ is eternal. We’ve forgotten that. We’ve forgotten a lot. Peace isn’t merely the absence of conflict; it is perfect stillness - rest and motion reconciled by love. It is the perfection of completeness. It is not something static; it is forever young and always new.   
Finally, when we see ourselves merely as separate, individual bodies we tend to operate out of a sense of lack, but to realize our spiritual nature is to be moved by abundance. Anyone who loves knows that the joy of love is in giving. Having someone love us isn’t as thrilling if it isn’t reciprocated by us in the same way. Instead, we know that the real joy of love is found in offering it; in giving. Love is always for giving; it is boundless, profuse, ample, and overflowing. It is the eternal life of Spirit.

 1: Matthew 22:23-33, Mark 12:18-27, and Luke 20:27-40
2:  I Corinthians 15
3: Galatians 5
4:  1 John 4:16
5:  Genesis 1:26-27; 2:7
6:  T. S. Eliot, Four Quartets, (East Coker)

Thursday, November 7, 2013

WAKENED BY KINDNESS


I was never required to write an essay for school about how I spent my summer vacation and I don’t think I’ll do that here. Besides, my holiday occurred from the middle of September to mid-October, and that hardly feels like summer even here in Oklahoma. In a nutshell, I visited my brother and his family in Ontario where I got to see a number of old friends. I then headed for New Brunswick to visit with my sister and her family in Moncton where I enjoyed:
~ quietly watching the sunrise and the sunset
~ going for a walk each morning and each afternoon
~ site-seeing in Saint-Louis de Kent, Richibucto, Bouctouche, and Sainte-Marie-de-Kent
~ seeing the Petitcodiac River from Beaumont
~ doing the dishes and then going for a walk around Victoria Park after supper
~ visiting the Farmers’ Market in Dieppe on Saturday and having a poutine râpée for breakfast
~ visiting the Farmers Market in Moncton on Saturday and having fish cakes for breakfast
~ going to Mass on Saturday afternoon with my niece
~ having dinner with old friends at my favorite restaurant, The House of Lam
~ writing two new songs (both of which mention molasses)
~ eating pork cretons with my great-nephew
~ attending early morning Holy Communion on Sunday at the Anglican Church of my youth and hearing a great homily from one of the finest priests I know
~ watching surfers ride the Tidal Bore
~ going for coffee at my favorite pizza café (Harry’s)
~ eating fish and chips with my godson who had been reading Plotinus earlier that day
~ eating my sister’s boiled dinner (pot roast)
As I mentioned, my holidays began in Ontario. I was there to attend a Memorial Service for a dear friend. I called her my godmother.
One Sunday morning when I was a teenager I was walking home from church when a doctor and his wife who were fellow parishioners asked me if they could give me a drive. (They literally came to me in “a sunbeam” – a Chrysler Sunbeam to be exact, the first car they owned as a married couple.) I discovered that they lived just around the corner and we quickly became the best of friends. They were mentors to me. I came to think of them as godparents, and I still do. They inspired me in every meaningful way one can imagine and I simply would not have pursued higher education without their influence and moral encouragement. Their great charity, patience, and hospitality revealed to all who knew them the deepest qualities of Spirit. The best way I can express the influence these wonderful people had on me is to quote an old hymn by Fannie Crosby.
Down in the human heart, crushed by the tempter,
Feelings lie buried that grace can restore;
Touched by a loving heart, wakened by kindness,
Chords that were broken will vibrate once more.
 In their company by God’s grace I was “wakened by kindness,” and I am thankful.

Sunday, September 8, 2013

LAND OF THE LUPIN


The road before me leads to a place
Where there are people that I love
They’ll be surprised when they see my face
It’s all one blessing from above

I took my journey far from her side
To make my living and to roam
But I found feelings I could not hide
I love my old New Brunswick home

(Land of the lupin where the field meets the sea
Pretty as a picture or a poem
Her rolling valleys, her mountains green
I love my old New Brunswick home)

We all went fishing back in the spring
We picked some fiddle heads and then
We had great meal fit for a king
I’m glad my brother is my friend

We’ll get some lobsters down by the bay
And have a party at the shore
With lots of music someone will play
We’ll sing and dance and then we’ll sing some more

(Land of the lupin where the field meets the sea
Pretty as a picture or a poem
Her rolling valleys, her mountains green
I love my old New Brunswick home)

I love her beaches and bright, clean water
The icy winters in the snow
I’ll give my Mother the gift I brought her
And see the warmest smile I know

I love her forests and I love her woodlands
I love the colors in the fall
I’ll see my father and shake his strong hand
I love my family one and all

(Land of the lupin where the field meets the sea
Pretty as a picture or a poem
Her rolling valleys, her mountains green
I love my old New Brunswick home)


© 1994 Dale Petley (Petitcodiac)

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

TOMORROW IS ANOTHER DAY


This one is for John ... from Cincinnati

TOMORROW IS ANOTHER DAY

You wake up alone and you’re sore to the bone
As thoughts start to swirl in your head
A smell hits your nose which can only disclose
That the cat has thrown up in your bed
Then it’s downhill from there and you think in despair
Life’s game is just too hard to play
Keep one thing in mind and you surely will find that
Tomorrow is another day

Your doctor says “My, your blood pressure is high
Bend over, this won’t hurt a bit”
And the pills he prescribes just mess up your insides
And make you feel like flat hammered spit
When you get back to work and your boss is a jerk
And tells you there’s no raise in pay
Bad news may abound but there’s one thing we’ve found
Tomorrow is another day

Your ex-wife calls you when some check’s overdue
She still gets you like no one else can
And the hot girl next door makes your jaw hit the floor
But you find out she’s really a man
Well don’t drink and don’t drive, we want you alive
Though we can’t think of one thing to say but
Don’t give up on love or on Heaven above and
Tomorrow is another day

When you jump for the ball and your chin breaks your fall
You don’t feel quite as young as before
When you injure your ass at your self-defense class
Just pick yourself up off the floor
We get older in time but we’re doing just fine
When our spirit’s still willing to pray
So stay in the game and keep tending the flame
Tomorrow is another day

© 2010 Dale Petley (Oklahoma City)